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Alisha&James

31 · 07 · 27

We are so excited to celebrate our wedding with the people we love. Please find the details for our day and let us know if you can join us.

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Alisha and James's botanical save-the-date invitation
St Andrew's Church · Walcot Hall
Alisha and James together
Together is our favourite place to be

Our story

Where it began

Some stories begin with a chance meeting. Ours began with a shared purpose.

We met through our work in homelessness services, brought together by a mutual love of helping people. It gave us an immediate understanding of what mattered to each other: kindness, compassion and being there for people when they need it most.

19 July

Our first date

A day at the beach in Hornsea, getting to know each other over an ice cream. A simple, happy moment—and the beginning of so much more.

Alisha on the beach at Hornsea on their first date
Hornsea beach
Alisha and James together at Hornsea on their first date
Our first date

What began with a common purpose grew into a partnership, a life together and, now, the beginning of our next chapter.

Alisha's engagement ring
She said yes

5 November 2025

The proposal

One very important question, followed by one very happy yes.

On 5 November 2025, we became engaged. It was the moment the life we were already building together became a promise to share all the chapters still to come.

Our family

Already a family

One of the most beautiful parts of our story has been becoming a family together.

From the very beginning, Alisha welcomed Henry into her heart. She has been patient, loving, fun and always there for him, and watching the bond between them grow has meant more to James than words can say.

From football matches and family days to holidays and new adventures, we have made so many happy memories as the three of us. Our wedding is not only the start of a new chapter—it is a celebration of the family we have already become.

Alisha, James and Henry together
The three of us
Alisha, James and Henry enjoying a family holiday by the coast
Family adventures
Alisha and Henry together at a football match
Alisha & Henry
Alisha, James and Henry smiling together in the car
Making memories
Alisha, James and Henry visiting a mosque together
Exploring together
Alisha, James and Henry together among old stone ruins
Holiday happiness
Alisha, James and Henry at the airport ready for a family trip
Off on another adventure

August 2025

And then came Coco

In August 2025, Coco joined our family and it felt as though she had always been meant to be with us. She brought even more love, laughter and the occasional muddy pawprint into our home.

Henry and Coco quickly became the best of friends, and she is now at the heart of our everyday family life—and, naturally, very much part of our story too.

Alisha, James, Henry and Coco together
Our family of four
Henry holding Coco as a puppy
Best friends from the start
Coco as a young puppy
Coco
Henry and Coco playing together in the garden
Always together

Life together

Our shared soundtrack

Music has become part of the rhythm of our life together. From Becky Hill to Ed Sheeran, some of our happiest memories have been made side by side—singing along, laughing and sharing the excitement of live music.

Every concert has given us another song, another story and another moment to remember together.

A collage of Alisha and James enjoying time together
Music, laughter and us
Alisha and James at Becky Hill
Becky Hill
Alisha and James at Ed Sheeran
Ed Sheeran

Saturday, 31 July 2027

The wedding day

Our ceremony will take place in Burton upon Stather, followed by celebrations at Walcot Hall Estate.

01

The ceremony

St Andrew's Church

Burton upon Stather

A beautiful parish church at the heart of the village, where we will exchange our vows surrounded by family and friends.

02

The celebration

Walcot Hall Estate

North Lincolnshire

Join us after the ceremony for food, drinks and celebrations in the beautiful grounds of Walcot Hall.

Timings to be confirmed

Order of the day

We will add the exact times as soon as they are confirmed, but this is how our day will flow.

Time to follow

01

Church ceremony

We will begin our day at St Andrew's Church in Burton upon Stather, surrounded by our family and friends.

After the ceremony

02

On to Walcot Hall

Following the church, everyone is invited to join us at Walcot Hall Estate for the rest of the celebrations.

Afternoon & evening

03

Food, drinks & a party

There will be no formal sit-down dinner. Instead, a variety of food and drinks will be available as we relax, celebrate and party together.

Before the day

Good to know

Dress code

Summer wedding formal

We would love everyone to dress up for the day, but most importantly, please choose something you will feel comfortable wearing and celebrating in.

Our guests

The more, the merrier

Children and plus-ones are very welcome. Please include the names of everyone in your party when you send your RSVP.

Gifts

Your presence is enough

We are not expecting gifts—we are simply happy to celebrate with you. If you would like to give something, a contribution towards our honeymoon would be gratefully received.

Questions

Contact Alisha

If there is anything you would like to ask before the day, please call or message Alisha on 07359 571653.

Please check back

We will keep this website updated as more details are confirmed, so please check back again nearer the time. If you have any questions in the meantime, please get in touch with us—we will be happy to help.

We hope you can join us

Kindly reply

Please let us know whether you can celebrate with us and share any dietary or accessibility requirements for your party.

RSVP by 28 February 2027

Will you be joining us?

We'll only use these details to help plan our wedding.